Why choose a private carer in London? The essential guide

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Choosing a private carer

For older adults, living in London can bring some unique challenges when it comes to arranging affordable home care, but private care can be a great option for anyone in the city who needs assistance in order to live independently in their own home. Here, we are exploring the key benefits of having private care in London, what private care actually helps with, the likely costs of private care in the city, and how to choose the right carer.  At Home Instead, our aim is to help people age positively and in place by bringing expert care to their home. For nearly 20 years, we have been providing the highest standard of care, and creating industry-leading training programmes for our Care Professionals that are accredited by nursing and medical professionals. Today, we are the world’s largest global domiciliary care network, supporting over 100,000 older adults with personalised, tailored care at home. So whatever questions you have about choosing a private carer in London, we can help.

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What are the care challenges older people in London face? 

Older adults who live in London boroughs may face a combination ofcare challengesthat make accessing and arranging care more difficult than in other areas of the country. This is due to several factors, including:

High living costs and financial pressures 

Older people living in London may struggle to pay rent and bills due to the rising cost of living, or may be forced to move far from family members or their community to ease financial worries. Data from Age UK’s 2022/23 survey found that 22% of Londoners over the age of 50 were living in poverty, which is 4% higher than in the rest of England. With London care homes and nursing homes having some of the highest costs in the country, live-in care can be a much more affordable option for people who reside in the city.These financial pressures mean many older adults feel unable to pay for the care they need, but ironically, financial pressure can lead to increased anxiety and sleep issues, which can result in the need for more care due to ill health – a vicious cycle. Age UK’s survey found that many older Londoners say they are not receiving help to pay energy bills despite asking for this, and financial pressures sometimes force them to be a caregiver for a spouse or relative, or to return to work after pension age.In an Age UK 2024 poll, 91% of respondents said that they were worried about the cost of living, and this can impact the level of care they can afford. For those struggling with the cost of living in London, you may find advice on the London.gov website, but live-in care could be a surprisingly affordable option that many older adults choose due to the personalised service they receive.

Cultural diversity

There are a range of cultural backgrounds in London; the 2021 Census found London to be the most ethnically diverse region of England and Wales, with 46.2% of residents identifying with Asian, black, mixed or ‘other’ ethnic groups, and 17% with white ethnic minorities. This means many Londoners require a caregiver who respects their customs and beliefs, understands their dietary needs, speaks their language, and is sensitive to their preferences. With home care arranged through the local council, you will be assigned a caregiver, so it is not always guaranteed that older adults will be matched with a professional carer who understands these needs – this can cause substandard care in some cases. Private care offers more flexibility, and often goes the extra mile to ensure clients are paired with a caregiver they trust. For example, at Home Instead we take time to match each client with a carer who not only understands their health needs, but who complements their personality.

A fast-paced lifestyle

An estimated 7.8% of London residents provide some amount of unpaid care, according to 2021 data, with 3.8% providing 19 hours of unpaid care per week or less, and 2.3% providing 50 hours of unpaid care or more per week. In addition, 1 in 10 survey respondents said they had caring responsibilities that “significantly impacted their finances”.In London, arranging care may not be easy due to busy work schedules in the city. For this reason, professional caregivers must be more flexible and adaptable in order to offer care outside of typical hours.

Isolation

Despite London’s busyness and fast-paced nature, it can be a lonely city. A 2022 report from the Campaign to End Loneliness found that 1 in 12 Londoners (around 700,000 people) said that from 2018 to 2019, they were severely lonely, with 61% identifying as single and living alone, and 41% identifying as long-term disabled. Isolation affects older adults at a disproportionate rate throughout the country, but this could be more of a problem in London, leading to a need for more companionship care offerings. You can read more about loneliness in older people in our guide to signs of loneliness in the elderly.

Inability to make home adaptations

Older Londoners with financial worries may find it difficult to make the necessary adaptations to their home, which can make a significant difference to their quality of life, particularly if they live with reduced mobility or another health issue. Research has found those aged 75 and up were more likely to report issues with the affordability of home repairs and adaptations, and an increased need for this may mean council-funded adaptations take longer to implement. You can read more about what might be required in our guide to home adaptations for disabled elderly people.It is important to keep in mind that London is made up of many boroughs where older adults might have different experiences with health and social care. You can find your borough council by visiting the gov.uk ‘Find your local council’ website page, or find each London borough council’s health and social care website below: Barking and DagenhamBarnetBexleyBrentBromleyCamdenCity of LondonCroydonEalingEnfieldGreenwichHackneyHammersmith and FulhamHaringeyHarrowHaveringHillingdonHounslowIslingtonKensington and ChelseaKingston upon ThamesLambethLewishamMertonNewhamRedbridgeRichmond upon ThamesSouthwarkSuttonTower HamletsWaltham ForestWandsworthWestminster

What are the key benefits of having private care in London? 

Home care can be arranged through your local borough council, but many people opt for private care in the London area as this offers a number of benefits for those who worry about the cost of living, and could make a vast improvement to an older person’s quality of life. Some of the key benefits include:

  • Personalised one-to-one attention – Private care means tailored, individualised support that rejects the one-size-fits-all model and creates a bespoke plan unique to the person’s physical and emotional needs, preferences, routines, home environment, cultural values and more. 
  • Continuity of care – Traditional care as arranged by your local council might have confusing staff changes. It can help for older people to see the same caregivers every day, as this can support more meaningful relationships and reduce stress. Continuity of care fosters trust within the care relationship to ensure older people get help from someone who knows them well. This is especially important for those living with dementia or another health condition.
  • Flexibility – Private care in a fast-paced city like London means family members no longer need to manage a relative’s care needs alongside a demanding work schedule, childcare, and other needs. Care plans can be easily adapted to fit around daily routines and can work around other family commitments.
  • Adaptability – Private care means you can have direct contact with your caregiver and the agency team, so you can make faster decisions about your care needs or the needs of your loved one. This is particularly helpful when an older person’s needs start to intensify and care must be adapted to suit. 
  • Specialist expertise – Unlike regular care offered by your local council, private care could help to connect you with professional support specialising in complex medical needs, particular conditions such as Parkinson’s disease or neurological conditions, or mobility-related challenges like arthritis. Whatever your unique needs are, private care agencies like Home Instead will assign a Care Professional who understands what will truly move the needle with your health and wellbeing. 

Staying at home – When it comes to a choice between moving into a care home or nursing home, or staying in one’s own home, the latter may be the preferred option, and private care can facilitate this. Receiving care at home has many benefits, including staying near family and friends, and enjoying familiar surroundings. You can read more about the benefits of this in our guide to the benefits of home care vs a care home.

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What do private carers do?

Private carers can provide either visiting care or live-in care for older adults in London who need support to live safely and comfortably in their own home. The job of a caregiver differs depending on the individual health and care needs of an older person, but might include:

  • Assistance with daily tasks like personal care (getting washed and dressed) and meal preparation
  • Managing medications
  • Helping with housekeeping 
  • Providing specialist support for conditions like dementia or Parkinson’s disease
  • Running errands in the local area – in London this might be more difficult for older people, so carers can take on this strenuous and sometimes stressful task
  • Assistance with transport to and from appointments or social engagements – in London this might involve navigating busy public transport or booking taxis 
  • Companionship to avoid loneliness and support emotional wellbeing 
  • Acting as an advocate at GP and hospital appointments by ensuring their best interests during treatments, and taking notes to help older adults fully understand their health needs
  • Help support and facilitate home adaptations for London properties that are more challenging to adapt than others, such as small flats – the Mayor of London has set out a plan with goals that include providing more accessible and adaptable homes
  • Arranging and helping with outings in the local area to support their wellbeing, such as visits to London museums like The British Museum or the Natural History Museum, or to green spaces like Hyde Park or Kensington Gardens

What is private care in London likely to cost?

With the cost of living issues older adults in London face, the cost of care may be a worry for them; research found Londoners over 50 living in social housing are more likely to live in poverty than other people their age in other types of housing.Care fees in London are typically more than elsewhere in the UK due to the higher living expenses, and care homes and nursing homes are often the more expensive option. For example, the average UK care home fee is around £1,266 per week, while the average care home fee in London is £1,545 per week. Similarly, the average UK nursing home fee is £1,529 per week, while the average nursing home fee in London is £1,800 per week. The cost of home care depends on the services you need and how often you need them, but at Home Instead, the average hourly rate in central London is around £45 per hour, and live-in care rates are around £1,800 per week. The benefit of paying higher prices in London for hourly care or live-in care is that families will only pay for the hours of care they actually require, rather than moving into a 24/7 care facility where you might be paying full-time rates for services you may not need. You can learn more in our guide to live-in care vs nursing and care homes.Private care is typically paid for by the individual or their family, but keep in mind there are funding options available, as some older adults will be eligible for support through their local authority, NHS Continuing Healthcare, or benefits. A Care Needs Assessment will help to ascertain what care is needed and what funding might be available for this. At Home Instead we are always upfront about our cost structure and remain fully transparent to ensure you get care that fits within your budget, so you never need to worry about hidden costs. You can read more in our guides to the cost of home care and paying for care.

How can I choose the best private care for my loved one? 

In a busy city like London, we understand that families want to ensure their older loved ones are safe and comfortable in their home, and able to get around as needed. Choosing an appropriate private care arrangement can feel like a big decision, so we are always happy to help you with your research by answering any and all questions you might have. Some of the questions you may wish to ask when finding a private caregiver include:

  • What type of care does my loved one need? (If you are unsure about this, a Care Needs Assessment can help, or speak to our friendly team)
  • Do they have any specialist needs (such as dementia care) and can the care agency provide this?
  • What training and experience do the carers have? 
  • Will my loved one receive continuity of care with the same care team? 
  • How will their care be monitored and reviewed? 
  • What support is available should we need it? 
  • How easy is it to adapt care to my loved one’s changing needs?

Private carers can be found through managed live-in providers like Home Instead, or through introductory agencies. Introduction agencies can be more affordable for some people, but it is important to keep in mind that while this type of agency could find an appropriate carer for your needs and set up their employment with you, they may not be registered with the Care Quality Commission (CQC), and will not be involved in the ongoing care. If you use this service, you may still be required to arrange and manage your carer’s daily tasks, workload and payment from the moment they are employed with you, with little or no ongoing support. For this reason, many people find managed live-in providers to be a better fit as they can help with the ongoing care arrangements, including finding respite care if a usual carer is off for any reason. Managed live-in providers like Home Instead typically do all of the background checks and initial work needed to ensure the person you are bringing into your home can offer the highest possible level of care, and cover all of your needs. We would advise against hiring a carer privately without the help of an agency, but if you do decide to do this, watch out for red flags such as:

  • Unclear pricing that could lead to hidden costs 
  • A lack of personalisation in the Care Plan
  • A high turnover of care staff
  • Poor communication
  • NoDBS check (a basic check of someone’s criminal record) 
  • Being vague about qualifications or training (always double check what they have listed is a real qualification) 
  • Negative reviews online
  • Not being registered with the Care Quality Commission (CQC)

A reputable care provider will always listen to your needs, ask questions, and take the time to match you with the caregiver who best fits your circumstances, care needs and personal priorities. Don’t be afraid to ask questions if you have concerns about care in London. At Home Instead, our Care Professionals have local London knowledge to help you navigate transport and access specialist services available in each borough. We can also help you find the best London hospitals for any care needs or emergency services, and if ever your regular caregiver is absent, we arrange prompt and reliable respite care in London to make sure you always have someone nearby. If you need to arrange private care quickly in London, we often secure this for clients in as little as 24 hours to make implementing a care routine for yourself or a loved one in London simple and efficient. Our experienced, supportive Care Professionals can provide the help needed within an older person’s own home, where they feel safe and at ease. For support in London, reach out to your local Home Instead office to discuss your options.We’re an award-winning home care provider and part of a worldwide organisation devoted to providing the highest-quality relationship-led care for older people in their own homes. Arranging care for yourself or your loved one shouldn’t be stressful, so whatever questions you would like answered, feel free to reach out to the Home Instead team to discuss your needs.

Diane Williams

Diane WIlliams , Head of Quality & Standards

I have worked with Home Instead since July 2016 as a member of the Quality Team, taking the role of Head of Quality & Standards in 2020.

Before joining Home Instead, I built a comprehensive career in the social care sector, beginning in 1991 as a frontline care worker and advancing to senior leadership roles across both private and voluntary sector businesses.

Throughout my career, I have supported diverse care groups in a variety of settings, including community, residential, nursing, and secure environments. My experience spans working with older adults, including those living with dementia; individuals with physical disabilities and complex, long-term health needs; people with learning disabilities, including autism; individuals with enduring mental health challenges; individuals with current or past substance use and those with forensic backgrounds.

In 2002, I qualified as a social worker and have since maintained my professional registration with Social Work England.