A guide to spotting the signs that a loved one may need some care and support

As our loved ones get older, it can be hard to know when they might need a little extra help changes often happening gradually, and families naturally step in to support without realising how much things have shifted.
At Home Instead Newcastle-under-Lyme & Stoke, we understand that recognising when someone might need some care at home can feel overwhelming. But with the right support, your loved one can continue to live safely, comfortably, and independently in the place they love most, their own home.
Here’s our simple guide to spotting some of the key signs that a relative, friend, or neighbour could benefit from home care in Newcastle-under-Lyme & Stoke.
1. Changes in Daily Routine
Struggling with everyday tasks such as cooking, cleaning, or doing laundry can be an early sign that your loved one might need a helping hand. You might notice that the house is less tidy than usual, the fridge is empty, or meals are becoming less varied or nutritious.
A little home care support, like help with meal preparation, light housework, or shopping, can make a huge difference.
2. Forgetfulness or Confusion
If your loved one is missing appointments, forgetting to take medication, or getting confused about dates and times, it might be time to explore some gentle support at home. Our Care Professionals at Home Instead Newcastle-under-Lyme & Stoke can provide reminders and companionship, helping to maintain routines and peace of mind.
3. Changes in Personal Appearance or Hygiene
A noticeable change in appearance or hygiene, wearing the same clothes for several days, or finding it difficult to bathe, may mean that personal care has become more challenging. Our dignified, person-centred care can help with washing, dressing and grooming while promoting confidence and independence.
4. Mood or Behaviour Changes
Emotional wellbeing is just as important as physical health. If your loved one seems withdrawn, anxious, or low, they might be feeling lonely or isolated. Our companionship care offers friendly conversation, emotional support, and encouragement to stay connected with the community here in Newcastle-under-Lyme & Stoke.
5. Mobility and Balance Concerns
Bruises, hesitancy when moving around, or recent falls are key signs that extra support may be needed. A home care assessment can help identify simple ways to improve safety, from mobility assistance, to fall prevention strategies.
6. Weight Loss or Poor Nutrition
Changes in eating habits, spoiled food, or weight loss can all signal that someone is struggling to prepare proper meals. With home care in Newcastle-under-Lyme & Stoke, our Care Professionals can help with shopping, cooking, and mealtimes to ensure your loved one is eating well.
7. Social Withdrawal
If someone stops attending social clubs, church, or seeing friends, it may be because getting out has become more difficult, physically or emotionally. A Home Instead Care Professional can provide companionship and support to help your loved one stay active and engaged in local life.
What to Do if You’re Worried
Starting a conversation can feel daunting, but it’s important to approach the topic with kindness and understanding. Express your concern gently, focus on how they’re feeling, and offer reassurance that support doesn’t mean losing independence, it’s about maintaining it.
At Home Instead Newcastle-under-Lyme & Stoke, our personalised home care services are designed to help people live happily, safely, and independently in the place they love most, their own home. Whether it’s a few hours of companionship each week, or more regular support, our Care Professionals are here to make life easier and brighter.
If you’d like a chat about how we can support you or someone you care about, please don’t hesitate to get in touch. We’re always happy to offer friendly advice and information, with no pressure or obligation.