What can a live-in carer do—and where are the boundaries? Clear answers for South Lanarkshire families.

Are you unsure what a live-in carer can and can’t help with? You’re not alone.
For many families across South Lanarkshire, the decision to welcome a live-in carer into their home brings both reassurance and questions. One of the most common concerns we hear at Home Instead South Lanarkshire is about boundaries: What support can a carer provide—and where should the line be drawn?
It’s an important conversation. While live-in carers provide a wide range of personal, emotional, and practical care, there are certain tasks they are not permitted or trained to do. This blog explains the everyday support carers offer, outlines the duties they cannot perform, and helps both clients and families understand where responsibility lies.

A live-in carer moves into your home and provides round-the-clock support based on your needs. While they are present for most of the day and night, their schedule includes designated rest breaks and overnight sleep (unless a waking night service is specifically agreed).
At Home Instead South Lanarkshire, our carers focus on dignity, safety, and maintaining independence wherever possible. Their support typically includes:
Carers can assist with bathing, washing, dressing, grooming, and toileting. Many clients like to continue certain routines themselves, and carers will always respect this. Their role is to support, not to take over.
Carers help with movement around the home, using mobility aids, and supporting clients who may need help transferring from bed to chair, or into and out of the bath or shower. Where hoists or specialist equipment are needed, proper training and handling techniques are always followed.
With appropriate training and guidance, carers can prompt or administer prescribed medication, monitor side effects, and report any concerns. They may also help clients attend medical appointments and liaise with healthcare professionals if something seems amiss.
From planning meals to preparing and serving them, carers support nutritional needs throughout the day. If a client prefers to cook with support, the carer can assist with reaching shelves, lifting items or preparing ingredients safely.
Carers can keep your home clean and comfortable by carrying out light housework such as tidying, laundry, dusting, and washing up. They may also take care of changing bed linen and putting out light rubbish.
Our carers offer more than practical help—they offer genuine companionship. Whether it’s a chat over a cup of tea, watching the news together, or encouraging visits to a community group, their presence can have a significant impact on emotional wellbeing.
Carers keep a close eye on changes in mood, appetite, sleep, or general health. They’re often the first to notice when something isn’t quite right and will pass on any concerns to family members or healthcare professionals.

While carers provide essential daily support, there are tasks they are not legally or ethically permitted to carry out. These boundaries are designed to protect both the client and the carer and ensure safe, professional care at all times.
Unless a carer has received specific medical training and operates under a regulated care plan, they must not:
Carers should never:
This protects both parties and helps avoid misunderstandings, exploitation, or future legal issues.
Carers are not permitted to undertake tasks that pose a physical risk, including:
Where necessary, carers can help source professional services to carry out these tasks safely.
Carers are not trained to provide cosmetic or therapeutic services, including:
Such services should be arranged with qualified professionals like hairdressers, podiatrists, or beauticians.
Carers should only follow the care plan agreed with healthcare professionals. They must not:
Even when acting with the best of intentions, unauthorised changes can cause harm.
Professionalism is key to building trust and respect in care relationships. Carers must not:
Boundaries ensure the focus stays on the client’s needs and that the carer remains effective and respected.

Boundaries aren’t about limiting care—they’re about protecting it. They ensure carers work safely, clients receive appropriate support, and that no one is placed in a situation that’s uncomfortable, dangerous, or inappropriate.
By clearly setting expectations, families and carers can build strong, respectful partnerships based on trust, clarity, and communication.

Live-in carers are present throughout the day and night, but they are not on duty 24/7. Like anyone in a professional role, carers are entitled to:
If overnight supervision is needed—for example, waking care for someone with dementia—this should be built into the care plan and may involve additional support, such as a second carer or dedicated night care provision.

Carers—whether employed by an agency or self-employed—have legal protections under UK employment and care law. These include:
This gives carers the right to:
Depending on their employment arrangement, carers may be entitled to:
Carers working through Home Instead South Lanarkshire are supported by a dedicated care management team, clear rotas, regular training, and ongoing supervision.

Live-in carers play an essential role in helping people live safely and comfortably in their own homes. They offer a wide range of support—from personal care and companionship to mealtime help and health monitoring.
But there are clear limits to their responsibilities. They are not nurses, cleaners, gardeners, legal advisers, or financial managers. Respecting these boundaries ensures carers can focus on what they are there to do: provide compassionate, consistent, and professional care.
At Home Instead South Lanarkshire, we work closely with families to create care plans that meet individual needs—while ensuring carers work within safe, ethical, and legal frameworks. If you’d like to speak to our team about arranging live-in care for yourself or a loved one, please visithomeinstead.co.uk/south-lanarkshire or call us on 0800 086 8686. We’re here to help you make informed, confident decisions about care.

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