Helping Loved Ones Feel Safe and Calm This Bonfire Night

Bonfire Night is such a special time of year, cosy jumpers, toffee apples, and colourful fireworks lighting up the sky. But for some people, especially older neighbours or those living with dementia, all that noise and flashing light can be a bit too much.

If you’ve got a loved one or a friend who might find it hard, there are lots of little things you can do to help them feel calm, safe, and cared for.

Here are a few friendly tips and ideas to make Bonfire Night a bit easier for everyone.

Talk About It Ahead of Time

If someone you care for finds surprises unsettling, it really helps to chat about Bonfire Night before it happens.

Let them know there may be fireworks, and that the loud bangs and flashes are nothing to worry about, just people celebrating.

You could mark it on a calendar together or write a little note to remind them what to expect. A calm chat beforehand can stop a lot of worry later on.

Keep Things Cosy and Calm Indoors

A few simple changes could make a big difference at home:

• Close curtains and blinds to block out the flashes.
• Turn on the TV or play some gentle music to help cover the noise.
• Keep pets inside, fireworks can frighten them too, and that can add to the stress.

Offer Some Company

Sometimes, knowing someone’s nearby is all it takes to feel safe. If you can, pop round for a quick cuppa or give them a call to check in. A friendly chat or a bit of distraction can go a long way. Even if they don’t want company, letting them know you’re thinking of them can be reassuring.

Stick to Their Routine

For people living with dementia, changes in routine can be confusing or upsetting. Try to keep the evening as normal as possible, same mealtimes, favourite TV Shows, and bedtime routine. The more predictable things feel, the calmer the evening will be.

Check In on Neighbours Too

South Cheshire has such a lovely community spirit, and Bonfire Night’s a great time to show it. If you’ve got an older neighbour living alone, maybe knock on their door or pop a note through to remind them when local fireworks displays are happening. Little gestures like that can make a huge difference.

And Remember – It’s OK To Ask For Help

If someone you care about becomes very upset or frightened, stay calm and reassuring. But if you’re really worried, don’t hesitate to reach out for help or advice:

Dementia UK Helpline – 0800 888 6678

Home Instead South Cheshire – 01270 611555

A Little Kindness Goes a Long Way

Bonfire Night is a time for warmth and togetherness, and that doesn’t just mean bonfires! Checking in on a neighbour, sharing a quiet evening with a loved one, or helping someone feel safe can make all the difference.

Let’s make sure that everyone across South Cheshire feels cared for and comfortable this Bonfire Night.