You Need Friends

In this fourth and final instalment of Jean’s lived experience of supporting her Dad through his journey with Alzheimer’s, Jean reflects on the importance of friends, and trying to find that all important balance of respecting independence and helping your loved one stay safe.

What Does Mike Do?

At the moment, Dad hasn’t attended any of the activities or groups mentioned in part three of this blog.  However, he continues to benefit from something just as important: the social life he’s always had.

With a bit of support, he’s still able to stay connected.

That support looks like:

  • Keeping a “Dad diary” to track his activities
  • Booking events where needed
  • Organising transport

His friends have been amazing—many offering lifts and helping him stay involved.

Of course, it’s not always straightforward.

Sometimes he says he doesn’t want to go out, only to change his mind at the last minute—and even attempt to walk there alone. With his unsteady gait, that’s not always safe.

So again, we come back to that delicate balance:

Respecting independence while ensuring safety.

There are no perfect answers. Just thoughtful decisions, made with care.

Dad and Norma Potters 2026

Closing Reflection

This journey is ongoing.

It’s not linear, and it’s not always easy—but it is full of moments of connection, learning, and love.

If you’re walking a similar path, know this:

  • You are not alone.
  • Support is out there.
  • And even in the challenges, there is still meaning, dignity, and life to be lived well at home.
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