Here are thoughtful, practical and heartfelt ideas to consider when choosing a present for someone with dementia.
Finding the right present for a loved one living with dementia can feel overwhelming. You want something meaningful—something that brings comfort, sparks connection, or helps them feel more like themselves. The good news? The most cherished gifts are often simple, familiar, and rooted in love.
Here are thoughtful, practical and heartfelt ideas to consider when choosing a present for someone with dementia.
As dementia progresses, sensory experiences become increasingly important. These gifts offer comfort, reduce anxiety, and provide gentle stimulation.
These provide calming pressure and can help ease restlessness or anxiety.
Fleece throws
Knitted shawls
Sensory cushions or tactile “fidget” blankets
These soothe busy hands and offer a sense of security.
Gentle lavender or chamomile scents can support relaxation—ideal for late afternoons or evenings when “sundowning” may occur.
Anything that helps your loved one recall familiar faces, moments, or routines is not only comforting but can encourage meaningful conversations.
Include:
Names
Relationships
Short captions
Keep it simple and uncluttered.
Add birthdays, family photos, and simple reminders for the month ahead.
Continuous rotation of family pictures can prompt recognition—even if memories fade.
Keeping the mind and hands active helps maintain confidence and independence for as long as possible.
Look for:
Large pieces
Clear, calm images
12–63 pieces depending on ability
Great for creativity and keeping hands moving.
Familiar games can be gently reintroduced with support from family or carers.
These are designed specifically for people with dementia—paint with water and the image appears like magic.
Music taps into deep emotional memory and can provide comfort, joy, or even help with daily routines.
Create one for morning energy and one for evening calm. Include:
Their favourite songs from youth
Religious or cultural music
Classic oldies they know by heart
Designed with easy buttons and no confusing menus.
Familiar storylines can bring reassurance and spark conversation.
These presents help maintain dignity, independence, and comfort in daily routines.
Velcro fastenings
Soft fabrics
Non-slip slippers
Cardigans instead of pullovers
Especially those displaying the day, date, and whether it’s morning or evening—ideal for reducing confusion.
Big buttons, no complicated menus.
A cosy comfort item can also reduce agitation at bedtime or while relaxing.
Some of the most meaningful presents don’t fit into a bag—they come wrapped in your presence, patience, and love.
Fill it with:
Tickets
Letters
Photos
Trinkets
Each one can prompt a story or a smile.
Even if they can’t read them independently, these can be read aloud later.
Short and simple outings:
A gentle walk
A scenic drive
A quiet café visit
The important part is shared time, not the activity itself.
The best gifts aren’t necessarily the most expensive—they’re the ones that offer comfort, spark recognition, or simply show your loved one how deeply they are cared for. As dementia progresses, the goal is to support connection, dignity, and moments of joy. Even the smallest present, given thoughtfully, can make a powerful difference.