A Calmer Christmas: 7 Supportive Ways to Help Someone Living With Dementia in Croydon & Dulwich

Here are 7 practical ways to create a more dementia-friendly Christmas, from the local team at Home Instead Croydon & Dulwich.

1. Keep Key Routines Steady

Routine offers reassurance. If there are regular patterns to your loved one’s day – breakfast at a certain time, an afternoon rest, a favourite programme – try to maintain these familiar markers.

Even small consistencies, such as sitting in their usual chair or keeping meal times predictable, help the day feel safe and recognisable.

2. Simplify the Festive Environment

Decorations are part of the joy of Christmas, but too many lights, colours or sounds can quickly become overwhelming.

Choose warm, steady lighting and keep decorations simple and familiar. Avoid moving furniture or creating new layouts; familiar surroundings reduce the risk of falls and help your loved one move more confidently around their home.

3. Provide a Peaceful Retreat

Gatherings in Croydon & Dulwich homes can become lively, especially when family members arrive all at once. Set up a quiet space where your loved one can rest or reset if things feel too busy.

A few minutes in a calm room can help ease stress and prevent the day from becoming exhausting.

4. Stick to Activities That Bring Comfort

Christmas doesn’t need to be filled with complicated plans. Familiar activities such as listening to old records, helping wrap a few gifts, sorting decorations, or looking through photo albums often spark the most enjoyment.

Choose tasks that feel achievable. Allowing your loved one to contribute in small, supported ways helps maintain a sense of purpose and connection.

5. Make Mealtimes Flexible and Pressure-Free

Busy dining rooms, new foods and longer meals can make festive eating difficult.
Try offering food earlier in the day or serving smaller, easier-to-manage portions. If the main family meal feels overwhelming, it’s absolutely fine for your loved one to eat somewhere quieter.

The aim is comfort, not sticking rigidly to tradition.

6. Prepare Friends and Family Before They Visit

Visitors often want to help but aren’t always sure how to communicate with someone living with dementia. Share simple guidance beforehand: speak clearly, give time for responses, avoid correcting, and keep conversation warm and relaxed.

Short, calm interactions are usually far more enjoyable than louder group discussions.

7. Notice When It’s Time for a Break

The excitement of Christmas can hide early signs that your loved one is becoming tired or overstimulated. Look for small cues such as restlessness, irritation, stepping away from conversations or becoming unusually quiet.

Responding early with reassurance and a chance to rest helps prevent distress and keeps the day positive.

At Home Instead Croydon & Dulwich, our Care Professionals are trained in dementia-specific communication and practical support strategies that make daily life smoother for families.

If you’d like help this Christmas or into the new year, we’re here for you.

Call 0208 033 0014 to find out more about dementia care or enquire online today.